Monday, April 23, 2018


I have my father to thank for my build and height, and my mother to thank for my lips and eyes. - Jasmine Guinness Quote (She is a designer and a fashion model since 1994, Ireland)

Why I prefer Jasmine Guinness quote - it is said that woman or a girl can be judged by seeing lips on her beautiful face. Can be judged whether she is healthy or not.

Before looking into the topic let’s see the top companies which are available in India

1. Whisper Ultra Clean
2. Stayfree Dry-Max All Night
3. Sofy Side Walls
4. Stayfree Dry Max Ultra Thin
5. She Comfort Ultra XXL Wings
6. Whisper Ultra Nights
7. Don’t Worry Ultra Thin Super
8. Kotex Sanitary Pads - Soft and Smooth Leakguard
9. Carefree Sanitary Pads
10. Apollo Pharmacy Sanitary Pads

Reusable pads:
11. Bella Maxi Soft Wings Classic Sanitary Pads

Reusable for as long as 10 years
12. Everteen Menstrual Cup

Note: Reusable Menstrual cup is suggested for physically in challenged people or completely bed patience’s for long years or months. Before you use it you need to contact a doctor.

And I don’t want to mention about another companies which are available in and importing from foreign countries with foreign brands sanitary pads into this country.

I ask all women this question? – Generally first time a newly matured girl will have how many days of bleeding in time of menstrual cycle or period ………………………………………………………………………. just human psychology question for human brain of girl or woman or the person presently who is reading this topic in my blog.

Bleeding usually will be around 2 to 7 days or 8 to 10 days incase heavy bleeding days.

Now you segregate how many girls have heavy bleeding and how many girls have normal bleeding and how many girls have Abnormal Uterine Bleeding in menstrual cycle time.

It is said that up to 80% of women report having some symptoms prior to menstruation. Common signs and symptoms include acne, tender breasts, bloating, feeling tired, irritability, headache and mood changes. Did you know it?

Also some girls or women like to drink heavy water in before menses or in bleeding time. Sometimes, few doctors’ give precautions to have medicine to get control on pains but this medicine does not cause gynec problems. That most of all in divorce cases husband report it in papers my wife have a gynec problems in menses time. I feel men’s need to be educated before marriage or before sex time.

……………………………………………………..Did ever think difference between sanitary  gel pads and normal cotton pads, did you ever read the precautions which are given in pack back side before using it.

And some says, use reusable pads which can be washed and make it dry for whole day and can be used it alternative days. But did you never think how many women’s suffer from infections, cancer, itching, anxiety and depression at last died in hospitals or sudden died.

Live Case study about reusable pads:

Take some Absorbent Cotton Wool and dip in a red or blue ink it depends on your choice which colour you like it.  And keep that wool in a cup with ink for half an hour then remove it and wash it and dry it for a day. Now can you see the cotton replaces precious fresh look before it was not dip into ink. How can you judge reusable pads are hygiene for months and years? 


Why diapers for babies - Example:

Did you ever see newly born babies or under 5 years kids wearing these diapers?  Mainly Doctor’s suggest mothers to use Pampers or Huggies branded.

These diaper pants have magic gel that locks wetness away for up to 12 hours of dryness.  Baby lotion that moisturizes and nourishes your baby's skin to protect it from diaper rash and irritation but when baby playing or crying, that means it’s time to check the diaper and it need to change it immediately. Am I Right or wrong? You see the psychology of babies who use diapers and the babies who doesn’t use diapers.

As it same:

In heavy bleeding time, sanitary  Gel pads are good for health but when there is no gel only light cotton sanitary pads how one can slept whole night……………………………….………………………………..girl or woman need to check in middle of the time or whole stress night. Bleeding come out of the underwear stick to the dress and stick to the bed. If it in the case of travelling time or long distance travelling time.

Did ever thought about heavy bleeding girls who don’t have sanitary gel pads.

You say me - how to manage. Did auto stops for her? Did bus stops for her? Did car can stop in middle of the way, did any one provide bathroom to clean or change sanitary pads. And famous dialogue you will listen from people…………………………………………….. Menses is untouchability. Don’t use bathroom. Don’t go inside the home or house. And you can estimate how government or private bathrooms look like while travelling for long distance in India.

Let’s come for Cost budget:


Earlier companies used to provide Sanitary Pads with gel based. So, the cost would be 165, 234, 420, etc.

Now, companies are not providing Sanitary gel based pads but cost is same…………………………………………………………….… Why this change came. 40 rupees pads cost 165, 60 rupees pads cost 234 and 80 rupees pads cost 420. 

Why the government is not taking action on this? And tax too.

Now, let’s come to little bit brief live case study,

See, if a girl (Normal bleeding or heavy bleeding) has bleeding days in menses time. Generally she uses gel based sanitary pads

First day: two, No gel pad - three

Second day: three or two, No gel pad – Four or Five

Third day: one or two, No gel pad – Two or Three

Four day: one, No gel Pad - Two

Five day: one or no pad (when there is no bleeding time), No gel pad – Two or one

Note: Some girls have only one day bleeding in menses day. From the next day she will have no bleeding.

Did mother-in-laws accept throwing four or five non gel pads in dustbin? Simply word from husband or mother in law – you are wasting all my money.

Health scenario:

How many Indian’s population of a girl’s or women died due to using sanitary pads?

Please kindly put your comments in this article with the medical record and which doctor gave treatment, what disease it is mentioned in death certificate.

Simply, don’t say that it is mentioned in the World Health Organization in this particular website or Wikipedia or in research books and papers or Films / movies or Arunachalam Muruganantham statements who is famous in social media these days in India.


I have a small notice for companies or customer relationship management (CRM) of sanitary napkin or sanitary pads:

Please read the letters posted by girls / women’s in your office or read comments in online selling website of your product or read the email’s which are send to your inbox and please make necessary changes immediately  before you release it in the market. Thank you!

Read everything you can get your hands on: Programme your mind to read all the time and everywhere - even in the bathroom; skim through the lines printed on the back of shampoo bottles and sanitary napkin packets.  - Twinkle Khanna Quote

(Twinkle Khanna is an Indian author, newspaper columnist, film producer, former film actress and interior designer also she is the India's highest-selling female writer of 2015)


Thursday, March 22, 2018


Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin. - Mother Teresa Quote

Once I was invited to Nims hospital (Nizam's Institute of Medical Sciences) and Osmania Hospital (one of the oldest hospitals in India), Hyderabad, India. As one of my relative is a senior doctor in that hospital when I was studying 5th class in Hyderabad, as my dad and me went to see him and see the management also infrastructure with technology.

But he and my dad were chatting about financial matters as my dad is Branch bank manger in reputed bank in Hyderabad. I got bored sitting in his cabin. I told dad I am really bored please let’s go home….. I need to prepare for assignments for the next day.

So, my relative said why you are getting bored looks to be interesting girl. Okay I will give you task…….go and see all rooms and say this to me that you are bored or I am bored. I said I don’t the root map of this building…….he said to me just say my name to  nurse, warden, administrators, juniors doctors, peon and watchmen  etc, they will come and drop you in my cabin.      

So, what for me if I go and see the rooms…….I have plans to open a hospital in Guntur district (This district is often referred to as the Land of Chillies). I need your suggestions as a student and I will give you as birthday gift amount how much you can ask me that I will pay you immediately.

I started my trip to see all rooms like ICU rooms, Operations rooms, general warden rooms, dead bodies room, minor and major accidents cases room, child birth rooms, pregnancy test rooms, medical samples testing room, health insurance of patients and office payments rooms, doctors conference meeting rooms, doctors cabins, nurse rooms, etc,.

I said to my relative see I am not finding anything except human birth and human death also Life of human age. I am finding various technologies to prevent the disease of the human beings.  I feel strongly that technology is only success mantra for the best reputation for any hospital. The problem is we need to have trained doctors who can operate technically while in operational time period.

After reaching home I am not getting sleep anymore the only question arising in my mind……Yes, I am also girl and future motherhood. Next day I went to my school and said to my classmates in Roman Catholic school in that I have seen all stages of life in the hospital for the first time in my life.  My Hindi teacher told Swetha it seems you have seen Bhagavad Gita pictures of God and explained about Gautama Buddha life story that how he becomes Buddha, when he saw life of human suffering.

After going home I have opened and read Bhagavad Gita slokas about how once childbirth, death, rebirth of next life. But after my 7th class I was transferred to Western Catholic School in Hyderabad. In 10th class, I was nominated for School people leader but due to rules and conditions in my parent’s family I resigned myself and nominated other girl as SPL.

After two years, my English and Telugu teachers said life of a girl is like two sides of coin. One side of coin is like marriage also kids and another side of coin is career, education, job, business. And everyone in my class started saying these are future dreams of coin.  And it’s my turn……Swetha what’s your dream coin ……I will become doctor……everyone stared smiles at me……what you will become doctor did you checked your percentage in science. Okay then I will do Ph.D and called as Dr. Maddali Laxmi Swetha in future days. Same thing I asked my parents at home. Again same rules and conditions Swetha….. We are in field of bankers, software, and business people and you will get marriage in early age.

I don’t know what to take decision so without telling to anyone I will to principal cabin and said sister I am not interested anymore to lead my life as please convert me to nun in church. So sister said term and conditions, rules and conditions, feast in nuns, food festival in the world where nuns are invited and you need to make habit of red wine just a few drops in your tongue as prasadam.

But before that you say me why you wanted to convert to nun. 

Tell me 5 reasons:

1. I born in a highly educated family with good reputation. And I have got good protectors for my life. But when was a child, one of the highly reputed family from Vijayawada and said we have seen Swetha for two years in my side house as tenants in their own building. We like own to adapt Swetha a daughter. But my parents didn’t agree……But now I am imaginary child, Imaginary daughter-in-law and imaginary granddaughter to that particular family. And they decided and kept name for me – Jyoti and their expectations on me.

2. My siblings – my elder sister and my younger brother…..we fight and conflicts but if something happens to me or them – we are one like do or die slogan.

3. Money, education, career are all up to me. In seventh class, I got highest marks in my class and my parent’s family also I got in three subjects as a state topper marks in Andhra Pradesh.  I will earn money on my own legs after becoming sister like you. I don’t chase for money, money only chase for you in my life.

When I was as a girl everyone started saying - Swetha is unique baby born in her parents’ hometown. Fair in complexion, height and attractive body type can fit for any dress colour, soft hair, soft voice, attractive eyes and her horoscope is very good.

But at the same time I was facing crisis saying – second girl child, why she is unique not like other in hometown, when she was born her mother didn’t have breast milk……. So many people use to say  that you are grown with milk powder, cow milk and buffalo milk… are unlucky girl in your family history. Your astrology is unique. So, I have a reason to convert.

4. Marriage: When I was born my mom’s brother promise to all in hometown….. My wife has given birth for three kids – one girl and two boys…..In future, one boy child will marry Swetha. Now, you say sister my marriage decision was taken when I was born just as a one day baby I am. But marriage is nothing but sex and pregnancy.

5. Kids: All Indians are my brothers and sisters one who marry me is my husband. So now you say me how many sisters I have and how many brothers I have in India. Kids feeling will be there for midlife of a girl.

Okay, you are a pure vegetarian girl  and are ready to eat non-veg in feast days or good Fridays with wine drop as a Prasadam….………….then I said that excuse me I will do fasting on those days.

So, One of my vice principal / students principal got doubt and stated that Swetha are you a Brahmin caste not I am not. How can you do fasting? Reason: my mom’s father’s father has owned  a newspaper call Deccan vysya  Patrika in British time in India and his best friend and family friend too for so many long years, his name  is Potti Sreeramulu – did hunger strike for Telugu-speaking population, On 1 October 1953, for Telugu speaking  people , Andhra State was established.

Then immediately sister verified and crossed checked my certificates, questioned me like a Investigation Bureau of India for 20 minutes and connected the call to 7th class school and verified my name check and caste……..after that I got to know that I am an arya vysya and Sri Vasavi Kanyaka Parameshwari is God for this community.

Swetha, we are very sorry dear……..we can’t convert virgin girl in your community……..Okay,  that was a problem please cancel my name and convert me to Christian from there nun. Now please listen; there was a girl in Brahmin family in north side of India her name is Nirmala Joshi via Sister Nirmala……..see her interviews and  meet her and estimate how many Indians scolded her and said about her in real life when she was before Brahmin and after she become Catholic Religious Sister.

After my 10th class I was not ready to face the world as I wanted to convert to nun…………..So my sister principal, administration and management in my school said ………….just go see your life in teenage, mild age, sex life, college friends, your dreams, family life, etc, then also if you are not interested to lead life and just come and knot the church bell, meet church father and discussed your will power to convert

And come hug us dear……….we all are welcome you in our bottom of hearts……………and waiting for you and call you as Sister. Paramanda sishyuralu ………….That’s your lovely Telugu teacher kept the name in front  of your classroom ………...when you was joined in this school of first month. You became famous in school, just remember how you kicked and tackled your super senior’s in this girl’s school.


Unfortunately, yesterday I was watching business news in YouTube videos. At the sudden I found a video that Sister Nirmala Joshi died on 25 June, 2015 in Kolkata from a heart ailment.

I heard numerous stories about her in my childhood and I have a hope that I may meet her and hug her share my feelings about how I want to lead life. But……………

Pray time: For Sister Nirmala Joshi,

My lord and grace blessings - please check her sins and deeds whether she goes for heaven or hell. But please give her heaven life in next birth life. Amen.